Do you ever get the feeling that you’re the last “30 something” living in a BIG city?
For the past few weeks I’ve had mixed feelings about being a post 30 single women living in such a big city (Miami). So, I’ve started to reevaluate life, marriage and motherhood and sometimes even my career. Don’t get me wrong, I’m by far the least lonely person you’ll ever meet. I work full time; grad school part time and I have a slew of other things on my plate. However, as of lately, I’ve been thinking…. (wait for it)
Have I made myself so busy, that I blocked out the thought of marriage, children and etc.? Or, is it that I’m at a stage in my life that I’m comfortable with who I am, and where I am? Either way, I think a mind reset needed.
I used the word reset because, I’ve seen so many depictions of marriages I don’t want. From the cheaper to keep her/him mentality, to the what would people think of me if my marriage ended in divorce. I’ve seen every headache I don’t want, and I’ve used them all to somehow tell myself that real marriages don’t exist in 2018.
Yes, I know my thought process is a bit dramatic, but it’s just my pure honest opinion!!!
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve also witnessed some beautiful unions. Union with couples who are madly in love with each other and would move mountains to remain together. But, unfortunately that hasn’t been the norm and its defiantly not what I’ve witnessed in the past few years.
Either way, let’s talk about…. Comment down below and let know your thoughts??? How should I press the RESET button in my head???